Heart In All The Right Places
"When one door closes another opens. But we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we fail to see the one that has opened for us."
Alexander Graham Bell
When it comes to matters of the heart the above quote rings true for all of us. When one door closes in our lives it is very difficult to turn our focus away from the hurt and pain of that closed door and look for the open door. During this month that we celebrate sweethearts, I ask that you turn your light of love onto your own heart. Let your light shine inwardly and embrace all that the Universe has to offer you in regards to love and matters of the heart. I often say that sometimes the Universe will open only a window and not an entire door. This allows us to not have to look to closely or to hard to find the opening in our life path. Many of us will bang and kick on the closed door, until we are exhausted, trying to get it to open back up. Some of us insist that the door is not really closed but just stuck and perhaps if we were to oil the hinges, try everything differently, that the door will reopen. And there are us humans who will even go as far to believe that we have the wrong key, and begin to search everywhere to reopen the door looking for someone or something to make the situation different. And very few are successful in their attempts, and the pain, sadness, and guilt of the closed door often leaves us feeling very vulnerable. The Universe would not be so cruel as to close one door without opening another.
A closed door also brings up feelings of fear because it means change and change is not something most people embrace. The change may even be one we are unable to control. For many of us change also implies that we will have to sacrifice something that has value for us. Even with knowledge that there may be a new door that has opened, we do not trust what the change will bring. The old door may have held many painful experiences but if nothing else they were familiar. The newly opened door may feel uncertain because we do not know exactly where that door will lead. So even if we have accepted the closed door we often do not run through it but instead park ourselves in front of it as we peek around the doorframe to see what might be there.
So, you ask? What does this have to do with our hearts? Everything! So many of us pray for change yet change is so frightening to us. I wonder why then, when without change we could never truly manifest what we want. I wonder why spiritual beings have so little trust in the Universe that will love them enough to provide abundant support. And I wonder why we insist on denying the core and essence of our being and instead become willing victims to circumstances that are within our means to change. We are all children of the Source that gave us everything at the moment of creation.
So here's how to begin to embrace and act upon whom we already are. When a door closes, get over it! When the relationship ends there is a Divine purpose for its ending. MOVE ON! SAY NEXT!!! You are so fortunate to be guided from what did not work for you to what is waiting for you that will be what you need. Get over it! Embrace the opportunity to have been exposed to that type of relationship and know more clearly what you want in the next relationship and what you do not want. Get over it! The only thing that has been lost (besides your time) is your limited belief structure about yourself, your worthiness and your right to everything. Get ready for growth, healing and expansion!
Here's how:
- Focus on the solution, not the problem
- Release the illusion to the Universe, "there is no thought that is greater than what you are."
- Trust in the fact that all negatives are a positive!
- Choose a new path with all of its excitement!
- Know you are never alone. Your true being is always present as are the answers.
- The open door is the answer to your desires to experience more from life.
We are always divinely guided, even in matters of the heart. Affirm:
"I release all limitations and bring into my life my perfect companion. I am open to this person NOW from any source. Thank you."
Sincerely
Dr. Karen Frank, The Nexticity® Expert!
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